This morning was Cathy's funeral. The overflow had to be opened because so many people came to be apart of that special meeting to pay tribute to Cathy. It was a wonderful meeting. I had the privilege of reading Cathy's obituary and Park spoke. He did an amazing job. We all wrote some of our favorite memories and thoughts about Cathy, and Park compiled everyone's words and read them. The spirit was so strong. There is no doubt in my mind that Cathy was there with us in spirit.
Here are our thoughts and favorite memories of Cathy:
We asked Cathy to be in the delivery room when our son was born. I knew that this was going to be one of the most amazing experiences of our lives and we both wanted our mothers, our son’s grandmothers, to be there to experience it with us. After the baby and I were discharged from the hospital, the three of us went straight to Jay and Cathy’s where we lived for 2 weeks. I will forever be grateful for the time I spent with Cathy over those two weeks. I felt so inept, being a new mother. Cathy was my biggest cheerleader and teacher, helping me care for our baby boy. Even though she was not feeling well, she insisted that she care for Baby Park during the day while I got some rest. The day we left, to move into my mom’s new home, I hugged Cathy, thanking her for all that she had done. We both cried. I wasn’t sure I would be able to continue taking care of our baby without her right there. She loves her grandchildren so deeply, and I am so happy for the times, especially those two weeks, that our son was able to spend with her.
Mom always expressed to me her goal of raising five college graduates. I never thought she would achieve that goal because I was the missing link. Though I had given up on myself she never gave up on me. Through years of encouragement and constant pushing I was able to help complete her goal. Mom never left my side even though my path took longer than expected. Mom, your perfect example of kindness, service, and hard work has molded me into the person I am today. I love you.
All of Cathy's siblings were there. It is the first time that they have all been together in years. Cathy's brother, Pete, flew in from the east coast, and Cathy's sister, Becky, flew in from Texas. It was so fun to see them all together. I know how happy this must have made Cathy. Family meant more to her than anything.
From left to right, and in order from youngest to oldest: Jean, Becky, Allen, David, Julie, and Pete. Cathy was the second youngest.
A couple of my favorite Ryan's
Jay and the kids: Elliot, Jamie, Cate, Jay, Park, and Grace.
My sweet boy.
The pallbearers bringing the casket to Cathy's grave site
Cathy's beautiful casket and flowers
Park and Ryan
My mom was a huge help these last couple of days.
Our little family
Cathy was buried in the same cemetery that her parents, Nedra and Park, were buried. She is just feet away from their burial site. Grandpa Frank Park is who Daddy Park and Baby Park are named after.
Our Sorenson family
Our little family and Grandpa Jay
This whole experience has been difficult for our family. We miss Cathy so much. I am so grateful for everyone's love and support for us this last year and a half. We are so blessed to have amazing friends and family.
Although this has been a trying time, I now have a testimony of the Plan of Salvation. I know that there is life after this and that our families can be together forever. How grateful I am for that...how grateful I am to be apart of an amazing family...how grateful I am for Cathy's influence in my life.
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